My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i t

I have very course hair and shes never did hair like mine before. I dont want to be rude but i dont want her to do my hair. Im very private with my hair and only trust my hair dresser to do it she been doing it since i was a kid im 30 now. I need my ends cut and i dont mind if she does that but she thinks that she can blow dry my hair and then flat iron it and thats not possible. I have a process that i must go thru to dry my hair. First i sit under the dryer for 45 minutes then maybe i might blow dry it but other than that its not going to preform like she thinks. She doesnt speak english so i cant explain in detail and i dont think my boyfriend is doing a good job. I DONT WANT HER TO DO MY HAIR!!! Will she be upset if i dont let her do it?

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

tell her that you have been going to the same person since you were a kid, and wouldnt want to hurt your hairdressers feelings. I am a hairdresser and I KNOW when my clients have been somewhere else... it bothers me because i usually have to fix someone elses mess. Tell her that you went to someone else once and your hairdresser was upset and because the person screwed up and she had to fix it. You promised you wouldnt go to anyone ever again.Tell her that you will only go to someone else if your hairdresser gets sick or goes on vacation.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

just tell her that your hairdresser, who is also your friend, already asked to do it first! she shouldn't get mad, i know exactly how you feel, i have veeery course and crazy hair... i don't trust may people with it!

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

well then have your fiance tell his mom that you do not need her to do your hair because you already have a hairdresser and she has always done your hair . that should take care of it . good luck and god bless.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

Just let her try maybe she knows what shes talking about. If you dont like it just wash it out and then you can tell her not to do your hair.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

The first person who answered this question has the right answer.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

Just tell her that your friend asked you first an you don't want her to feel bad. Or tell her that you can handle it ok.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

Just tell her that your hair is something that she is not familiar with and not doubting her skills, you will feel better to go to someone who knows your hair and you feel comfortable. But I will soften the blow by asking to wear something of hers to the wedding, like a family heirloom jewelry.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

If she wants to do your hair, why do you have to tell her not to do it.Even if she doesnt do it right, let her do it, that will make her feel good and a kind of respect for her.Its just hair PLEASE.Its not like shes gonna take your life.Then again go do it at your hairdresser, big deal.Sorry, but this is my opinion.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

Tell your boyfriend to explain it better. She's his mother and he speaks her language.

My soon to be mother in law whos a hairdresser wants to do my hair but i dont want her to how do i tell her?

She probably will be upset because she's a hair dresser, that's what they do... but, she might not hold it against you, since they are turned down by people too.

I would just let her know that I've had the same person doing my hair for 20 years and I'm not about to let someone else do it, it's a trust thing... she's a hair dresser, she should understand, again.. it's what they go through.

I would also let my BF know that, he's not helping, how would he feel if you had a cousin that wanted to but his hair... men are very picky about that too.. trust me, I have a son, Iknow.

Anyway, on the other hand... what could she possibly do wrong. I have the very course hair and I allowed someone at hair cuttery to do my hair and I LOVED IT... and I only get my hair done by one or two of my cousins.

Question though: You don't mind her clipping your ends, but you don't want her to blow dry and flat iron your hair? I would be more concerned with the cutting than the other, because some people get happy with cutting, when u say clip ends, you might end up with a HAIR CUT. So, I really think that their is an underlying issue, (i.e., no speak english).